I’m sure you’ve wondered on more than one occasion, “How can I make her want me?” This is completely the wrong question to ask. Read on and discover the secrets for a graceful seduction.

Let’s start with the basics; image is important. Women always note the way you dress. Keep it simple and dress casually. Clothing is a reflection of personality, so be sure to embark on your date feeling like the hombre you truly are. As they say in real estate, location is everything! Bring her to a relaxed and serene setting; such as quaint coffee shop, where the main focus will be developing sexual chemistry. Nature is soothing so she would enjoy a pleasant stroll through the park or a walk on the beach into the sunset. In the evening, light your surroundings with candles and dim lighting to create a sensual and relaxed mood. Remember to stimulate her mind; seduction is not just physical.

The key is to find yourselves on the same wavelength, and what better way than with music, Ah yes, the wondrous potential of the musical note! The beat will synchronize the rhythm of your bodies and evoke emotions to put you in the same mind set. This is your chance to establish a mood, so pick music that makes you feel contemplative, vulnerable, sensual and sexual! Odds are the songs will provoke the same feelings in her! It’s always a good idea to find out what type of music she enjoys; you don’t want to ruin the moment. Now don’t forget you’re on a mission. Make sure to direct the conversation towards positive, light topics and the feelings of seduction: being loved, connected, and stimulated. But be careful – you don’t want to seem overzealous. Don’t make it known that you want her sexually, instead be patient and give her the time to shine. Women love to talk about themselves, especially when you show a deep interest in what she has to say. Get her to start talking – comment about a unique detail in her outfit and ask her the story behind it – then go with the flow.

Ask yourself, how can I get her out of her shell? Beware – don’t barrage her with questions! This isn’t the Spanish inquisition, but an opportunity for her to open up. You want to make her feel comfortable enough to share information – rather than having to pry it out of her. Be proactive in establishing her comfort zone, then reactive to what she has to say. You see, we hide behind a shell and subsist in a world of insecurities and uncertainties, and it’s a man’s job to break down those barriers. The equation is a simple one: We want to be wanted, deep down we want to be craved, desired, fantasized about and lusted over. In order to successfully seduce a woman, you must first make her feel confident in her womanhood. Talk to her and uncover the little quirks, which she tries to hide, yet desperately wishes she were loved for. Either a woman is truly confident in herself, or she needs someone to convince her. Make her feel that she is flawless despite her flaws; bring her out of her shell and she will love you for it.

Of course you don’t want her to feel that you’re pushy or needy in any way. Come across as a cool headed man with his act together and something of value to offer her. I’m not talking about fame and fortune, as boasting about and flaunting those qualities will just turn her away and make you seem like a shallow, self absorbed poseur; definitely not the image you’re aiming for! You must be super confident about yourself, which will make her want you more. Conduct yourself in a nonchalant fashion and watch how she will come to you and seek your approval – a very important component for seduction. She will feed off your self assuredness and absorb your positive energy. If a woman likes the way you make her feel about herself, she will keep coming back for more. Keep in mind that your first goal is not to impress, but to put her at ease. Comment on the little things, like the way she wears her glasses low on her nose, or the way she bites her lip when she tries to hold back a smile. Women like it when men pay attention to detail. You’ll know your techniques are working once her body language signals flirtatiousness.

Be sure to capitalize on the sexual energy building up. Gaze into her eyes with a look of fascination and attentiveness. Holding eye contact like this will begin to stir feelings of intimacy. Point out the amazing connection you feel, and if she agrees you know you’re on the path to success. If she seems compliant, remember that touch is incredibly important. Once she opens up to you, holding her hand is a great idea. Don’t shy away from body contact but don’t be a cad and go for her breasts and backside! Concentrate on the less obvious parts of her body, as you want her to become comfortable and familiar with your touch. Make her want more and crave for you to discover her entire body!

Whether she is ‘the woman of your dreams’ or just the ‘girl next door’ you can and will seduce her if you carefully plan the date. Remember, you must make the woman feel comfortable and somewhat in control, so once you have made her feel as the ‘queen’ of the world, lay her down and listen to the sweet notes drawing you closer as a connection is made beyond the language of words. Let the music steer you two into ecstasy, then into the memorable realm of seduction. Look into her eyes, tantalize her with your touch, and gently caress her bottom lip with yours. This is your time to shine – hit all the right spots and give her an unforgettable wild night to brag about to all her friends…we women love to talk! Finally trust me on this: a perfect first time seduction and she will do anything you please.

Si alguna vez te haz preguntado “Como la hago mía?”, Aunque esta no es la pregunta correcta, hoy te tenemos la respuesta! El arte de la seducción es muy delicado. Hay que empezar por tu imagen. Las mujeres siempre nos fijamos como te vistes. Mantén tu ropa simple y casual. La ropa es una reflexión de tu personalidad, así es que asegúrate de tener buena presencia. Luego el sitio donde la llevas es importante, quizás un café con el enfoque en desarrollar la química sexual, o quizás una caminata por el parque o la playa, y en la noche las candelas crean un ambiente sensual y relajado. Recuerda estimular su mente. La música te puede ayudar con esto. Trata de aprender que le gusta. Pero recuerda tienes una misión. Mantén la conversación positiva con temas leves y los sentimientos de ser amada, conectada y estimulada. Pero con cuidado no se seas muy agresivo. A las mujeres nos gusta hablar de nosotras. Haz que te hable de temas acerca de tu vida. Y fíjate en los detalles.

Dale piropos originales que la hagan sentir segura. Y tu debes estar sumamente seguro de ti mismo eso nos gusta queremos sentirnos seguras en tu seguridad. Cuando la emoción este creciendo acaricia su piel pero con cuidado y de manera sutil. No en los senos o el trasero, sino en sus manos o su espalda. Cuando se sienta confortable mírala con mirada penetrante, y dile la fuerte conexión que sientes. Si esta de acuerdo estas en camino. Ahora vas en camino a la gloria. Recuerda lo importante es hacerla sentir confortable y segura de si misma, yo cuenta se sienta como reina será tuya. Mírala, bésala, esta es tu hora. Ahora llévala al estasis y bríndale una noche que nunca olvidara!

As a chill rushes down her spine, she feels the vibrations in your touch; you sense the electricity as she licks her lips, you see the burning desire in her eyes…

Her inhibitions slowly melt away and you find yourself in the presence of one wild woman – the ultimate bad girl has emerged from within. She is yours – ready, willing and able!

Familiar dream sequence? I’m sure! And I’m also sure you’ve wondered on more than one occasion, “How can I make her want me?” This is completely the wrong question to ask. Read on and discover the hidden secrets for a truly graceful seduction.

Let’s start with the basics; image is important. Women always note the way you dress. Keep it simple and dress casually. Clothing is a reflection of personality, so be sure to embark on your date feeling like the hombre you truly are.

As they say in real estate, location is everything! Bring her to a relaxed and serene setting; such as quaint coffee shop, where the main focus will be developing sexual chemistry. Nature is soothing so she would enjoy a pleasant stroll through the park or a walk on the beach into the sunset. In the evening, light your surroundings with candles and dim lighting to create a sensual and relaxed mood.

Remember to stimulate her mind; seduction is not just physical. The key is to find yourselves on the same wavelength, and what better way than with music, Ah yes, the wondrous potential of the musical note! The beat will synchronize the rhythm of your bodies and evoke emotions to put you in the same mind set. This is your chance to establish a mood, so pick music that makes you feel contemplative, vulnerable, sensual and sexual! Odds are the songs will provoke the same feelings in her! It’s always a good idea to find out what type of music she enjoys; you don’t want to ruin the moment.

Now don’t forget you’re on a mission. Make sure to direct the conversation towards positive, light topics and the feelings of seduction: being loved, connected, and stimulated. But be careful – you don’t want to seem overzealous. Don’t make it known that you want her sexually, instead be patient and give her the time to shine.

Women love to talk about themselves, especially when you show a deep interest in what she has to say. Get her to start talking – comment about a unique detail in her outfit and ask her the story behind it – then go with the flow. Ask yourself, how can I get her out of her shell? Beware – don’t barrage her with questions! This isn’t the Spanish inquisition, but an opportunity for her to open up. You want to make her feel comfortable enough to share information – rather than having to pry it out of her.

Be proactive in establishing her comfort zone, then reactive to what she has to say. You see, we hide behind a shell and subsist in a world of insecurities and uncertainties, and it’s a man’s job to break down those barriers. The equation is a simple one: We want to be wanted, deep down we want to be craved, desired, fantasized about and lusted over. In order to successfully seduce a woman, you must first make her feel confident in her womanhood. Talk to her and uncover the little quirks, which she tries to hide, yet desperately wishes she were loved for. Either a woman is truly confident in herself, or she needs someone to convince her. Make her feel that she is flawless despite her flaws; bring her out of her shell and she will love you for it.

Of course you don’t want her to feel that you’re pushy or needy in any way. Come across as a cool headed man with his act together and something of value to offer her. I’m not talking about fame and fortune, as boasting about and flaunting those qualities will just turn her away and make you seem like a shallow, self absorbed poseur; definitely not the image you’re aiming for! You must be super confident about yourself, which will make her want you more. Conduct yourself in a nonchalant fashion and watch how she will come to you and seek your approval – a very important component for seduction. She will feed off your self assuredness and absorb your positive energy. If a woman likes the way you make her feel about herself, she will keep coming back for more.

Keep in mind that your first goal is not to impress, but to put her at ease. Comment on the little things, like the way she wears her glasses low on her nose, or the way she bites her lip when she tries to hold back a smile. Women like it when men pay attention to detail. You’ll know your techniques are working once her body language signals flirtatiousness.

Be sure to capitalize on the sexual energy building up. Gaze into her eyes with a look of fascination and attentiveness. Holding eye contact like this will begin to stir feelings of intimacy. Point out the amazing connection you feel, and if she agrees you know you’re on the path to success. If she seems compliant, remember that touch is incredibly important.

Once she opens up to you, holding her hand is a great idea. Don’t shy away from body contact but don’t be a cad and go for her breasts and backside! Concentrate on the less obvious parts of her body, as you want her to become comfortable and familiar with your touch. Make her want more and crave for you to discover her entire body!

Whether she is ‘the woman of your dreams’ or just the ‘girl next door’ you can and will seduce her if you carefully plan the date. Remember, you must make the woman feel comfortable and somewhat in control, so once you have made her feel as the ‘queen’ of the world, lay her down and listen to the sweet notes drawing you closer as a connection is made beyond the language of words. Let the music steer you two into ecstasy, then into the memorable realm of seduction. Look into her eyes, tantalize her with your touch, and gently caress her bottom lip with yours. This is your time to shine – hit all the right spots and give her an unforgettable wild night to brag about to all her friends…we women love to talk!

Finally trust me on this: a perfect first time seduction and she will do anything you please.

Si alguna vez te haz preguntado “Como la hago m